I usually see my one relative once or twice a month as my competitor even though i never actually think about her in real life
Dreams about competitors often reflect our inner struggles and feelings of insecurity and competition in waking life. Seeing your relative as a competitor in the dream could suggest that you feel some sort of rivalry between you two, even if it's a subconscious feeling. It may also represent your inner emotions and feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, or self-doubt about your own abilities. Alternatively, the dream could be a warning to stay alert and focused as you navigate through a challenging situation, especially in regards to work or personal relationships.